How do you get girls to like you?
Guys have asked “how do you get girls to like you” for centuries. On the surface, women seem illogical and unfathomable, but if you understand a few principles of psychology, it’s not so difficult to get the girl.
Before we get into any methods, it’s important to consider one thing: It’s really not about what you are. It’s about who you are. What that means is that you could be the richest guy in the world and have garages full of cars and yes, you might be able to score with some really shallow women. What if, deep inside, you knew that you were a catch and she is missing out by not getting to know you? Time for our first lesson on how do you get girls to like you:
WHO are you?
We all know that girls have a sixth sense for picking up on your own self-esteem. They can tell that you feel awkward and scared and that makes you not interesting to them.
By now you’ve seen the short, fat guy who scores with all of the girls. What is that short, fat bastard’s secret?!! It’s easy: that guy thinks he’s awesome! He doesn’t care about his negatives. He simply knows that girls love him. The fact that he feels that way makes women wonder why he’s so conceited.
Any time you can get girls wondering about you, you are in!
So the girls are wondering, “What makes him so special?” and they decide to get to know him. Once they do that, they are hooked. WHo wouldn’t want to be around someone with such high self esteem. People that feel good about themselves make the people around them feel good about themselves.
To know you is to love you
Isn’t that the case with just about all of your friends? On the surface, they might have some obvious downfalls, but when you get to know them, they are pretty awesome. This is the same way with women. On your surface, they have millions of reasons why they don’t want to get to know you, but once they’re in, they fall for you.
The problem is getting them in.
How can you accomplish this? Going along with the first point, you have to remain mysterious to them. Once a woman feels like she truly knows you, then she’s not interested anymore. That dork driving the Porsche has shown her everything she needs to know: rich, no self-esteem, small dick…
What if you pose more questions than you answer? Never give a direct answer. Never let her know anything about you unless it’s small anecdotes that prove how cool you are. You have to leave women guessing about you. It’s one of the best tricks on how do you get girls to like you.
Don’t be squirrelly
The first mistake guys always make around women is that they get intimidated. This only proves to her that you are already beneath her. Relax. Lay back. All people (men and women) are trying to hook up with someone better than themselves. A lot of our self-worth is wrapped up in how awesome our girlfriends are.
So you have to act like it’s no big deal to be around her. You don’t have to be a jerk, but you do have to be indifferent. If every other guy around her is throwing themselves at her feet and you’re the only one who doesn’t then there is something different about you. And different is good…
Chill out. If this girl isn’t into you, it isn’t the end of the world. Practice being laid back around her and when someone really special rolls in, you’re already cool with it.